UPDATE: Miss Manners has just released timely advice on navigating the often awkward situation of phone-sharing at social gatherings, especially for those concerned about health risks. As social interactions resume, many people are grappling with etiquette surrounding smartphone use during meals and events.
In a recent column, Miss Manners addressed a worried reader whose husband is immunocompromised. The couple is uncomfortable touching a friend’s phone that is frequently passed around at dinner parties. The reader expressed a desire to avoid this practice while maintaining politeness.
Miss Manners suggests a straightforward solution: quietly inform the friend about the couple’s preference for a device-free zone at the table. This can be done either through a private conversation or a gentle announcement to all guests. She emphasizes the importance of clear communication to foster a comfortable atmosphere for everyone involved.
However, for those who may find themselves in similar situations without prior warning, Miss Manners recommends a clever tactic. She advises simply standing up, approaching your partner, and intercepting the phone before it reaches them. By expressing delight over the photo, you can seamlessly pass it along to the next guest. This approach allows you to maintain social grace while addressing your concerns about hygiene.
In another related query, Miss Manners tackled the question of responding to invitations. A reader was hesitant to attend a neighbor’s post-Christmas open house where guests are asked to bring food. Despite the lack of RSVP and contact information, Miss Manners asserts that etiquette still requires a response. Declining the invitation is just as polite as accepting it, ensuring respect for the host’s efforts.
Furthermore, readers contemplating travel plans with friends who may not share the same interests will find valuable insights in Miss Manners’ guidance. She clarifies that there is no obligation to travel with friends, even those who share passions. It’s acceptable to keep future plans under wraps, avoiding pressure to include others in your personal adventures.
These insights from Miss Manners are not just about etiquette; they reflect the evolving dynamics of social interaction in a post-pandemic world. As people navigate health concerns and social boundaries, her advice serves as a reminder of the importance of communication and consideration in our daily lives.
As we head into the holiday season, remember to prioritize your comfort and well-being while also being mindful of the feelings of those around you. For more guidance, readers can visit Miss Manners’ official website or send their queries directly.
This urgent update is essential for anyone looking to navigate the complexities of modern social gatherings with grace and confidence.
